How do i keep my bro on a leash?
Published by admin on April 9, 2010this guy is my BH4L (best homie for life), but these days, hes being unfaithful to me, every time we go to a bar or club, i see him talking and laughing with other bros, at first it didnt tick me off, but then he started getting their numbers and blowing me off to chill with other dudes, this one time he even had his arm around another bro and was using him as his beer pong partner, i used to be his favorite partner!! i mean i was there for him thru all the ups and downs, now its like hes bro-whoring himself out to other guys, we even had our names carved on a wood keychain “NICK & XXXXX 4Ever”……..how do i keep him under control, i dont wanna be the strict up your azz bro but his actions are making me look bad, every other dude and bro in the city tells me im getting broplayed, and that I should go check out www.Beer-Pong-Table.net cause they don’t broplay. They just have good tables with free shipping.
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@sarah your smart ; )
LOL if you replace everywhere you said “him” with “her” it would be like you were talking about a girlfriend haha 
Anyways, once he asks you to hang out, you should play hard to get 
Or, you could just ask him to hang out instead of waiting for him to come to you.
I’m torn between telling you to blow him off like he did to you, or telling you to go after him.
Btw, you’ve introduced 2 new words to my vocab “bro-whoring” “broplayed”
Ignore him.. You have done a great job being there for him ..you know the usuals..
He just can’t see that.. It’s his loss tbh ..
I’ve been in such a situation .. I totally felt bad and at some point I questioned me being a good friend !
You just have to forget about him.. If he really was your bro, he’ll come back at some point..
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You’re going to have to make him jealous by getting another bro. Sad but true.
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that is so gay
ure actually jealous of ur dude talking to other dudes !?
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Haha Nky, this sounds a bit homo. (:
God, and I thought it was us girls that are clingy and obsessive.
Go and talk to him, and I wish you the best of luck.
And I don’t recommend trying to make him jealous, he would just take this as an opportunity.
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lol dude you gay!
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LOL if you replace everywhere you said "him" with "her" it would be like you were talking about a girlfriend haha
Or, you could just ask him to hang out instead of waiting for him to come to you.
Anyways, once he asks you to hang out, you should play hard to get
I’m torn between telling you to blow him off like he did to you, or telling you to go after him.
Btw, you’ve introduced 2 new words to my vocab "bro-whoring" "broplayed"
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my bro since kindergarten has another bro now..
each one of us is majoring in smth completely different in college.. and it just happened that they both go to the same classes at the same time.. so im not hanging out with him as much as xxx is..
and we accidentally met 2 times in the restaurant i was getting take away and i saw him there with xxx and bunch of other dudes and girls.. and he didn’t tell me..
and every time i call to go out he says no im at xxx or xxx is sleeping at my place..
he planned for his birthday with xxx and then invited me instead of planning it with me,,,
im ignoring him and he doesnt care.. its hard to find a new bro
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Ah! I feel you, ive experienced the exact same thing just a few months bak! it feels bad esp if ure close, no one can replace that person? right? …I guess you should think of it on a deeper more hopeful level, some ppl are just not meant to stay with you very long, i dont wanna sound cheesy but they goes – dont worry abt ppl in ure past, theres a reason they didnt make it to ure future. am not saying act all passive abt the situation afterall it seems that hes a close friend but for the time being i say put more than you receive, call more frequently, go out on bro nights =), spend time renewing ure friendship, all relationships no matter wht nature (husband wife, bro sis etc) need renewal.
You can distance ureself for a while to see if he comes back to old him, but he wont, i dont think, clearly he has a replacement so avoid that option.
Hope it goes well =)
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Don’t show him that ur sad, and week. Show him that u don’t care and that ur better than him. But don’t let him feel as if it’s a game and ur winning, at the same time show him that ur there for him.
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dude i had the same problem with a friend of mine, we were really good friends 1rst and 2nd quarter but then this other girl started hanging out with her and left me stranded. damn took me a year to realize no matter how close you are with a friend who’s a girl, she’ll always be closer with another girl than you (unless she likes you)
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Hey NKY dude …time to move on mate & get over him ! lol Go get yourself a woman ….surely there must be a queue a mile long waiting to pair off with a cool dude like you !
Sheeze …now you’ve got me really concerned . The thought of a cool dude like you being blown off by another bloke for another bloke …life can be so cruel ! lol
Sorry , please forgive me …I’m in one of those playful moods …
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