Why is it that the men I meet who have their lives together end up being married?

Published by admin on April 9, 2010

Now, the answer to this question might seem obvious. (It’s because they have a wife). To me, it seems like the only men I meet who are capable of intelligent conversations, share similar interests with me, and have stable jobs are all married. I know there are single men out there like that sans the wife, but I never seem to run into them. Now, I don’t run into these men at bars, but I meet them in workshops and professional activities. I already know that I shouldn’t mix relationships and my professional life.

The real question should be… Am I doing this all wrong? I’m not exactly looking for someone, but after several conversations with them I find these men attractive regardless of the rings on their left hands. Where is the best place to run into a SINGLE, intelligent man who has his life in order? By “life in order”, I mean that he’s not playing beer pong on a Wednesday night.

Because you’re not the only one looking for a guy whose life is in order!

Hang in there, though. One of these guys is bound to end up with a wife who does NOT have their life in order, and then anything can happen. There is no magic place to find these guys. Just get out there, join a club or volunteer activity, stay busy and active, and meet as many people as you can. The more people you expose yourself to, the more likely you find the guy you’re looking for. And you won’t even have to run after them! But if you do… you may wanna visit www.Cross-Country-Running-Shoes.com cause they look like they’ve got the running thing figured out.

Good luck!